How to Make Sure You Won’t Be Friendzoned
This is a common thing that happens to men; they get friendzoned when in fact they’d like to have a chance to be more than that. But there are some tips that will help you steer clear from the dreaded friendzone area.
A lot of things are influenced by the things we say and do. Our personality can dictate the way a conversation goes and being friendzoned depends mainly on how you act towards the girl that you like.
Power Play
There is a certain truth to most interactions and relationships: there is some power play involved. So don’t look desperate; that makes any girl keep her distance. Pose as the cool guy who has many girls he can choose from. She’ll like to be courted by someone who has many options available but instead he decides to choose her.
Timing Is Everything
You should feel the right vibe when you open up to her. Make sure you don’t overwhelm her with compliments and you don’t talk too much about your feelings. She might end up not taking you seriously at all.
Support Comes in Many Forms
If she is used to you always being there by her side she might not appreciate what you do for her. People tend to take things for granted. So try not to be available all the time but be there for her when she really needs it. You will also help her by letting her solve her problems on her own. Independence and freedom are two traits that are sexy in both genders.
Keep Things Interesting
Both men and women find unpredictability sexy. When you don’t have a person figured out, you are more inclined to be attracted to that mysterious side of their personality. So keep things interesting. Be yourself, but rely on your mysterious charm, too.
Don’t Turn into Her Confidante
The moment she starts talking about other guys with you is the moment she friendzoned you. She thinks you are just friends and she is not trying to look available to you at all. So try not to discuss about her past loves, crushes and other things like that.
Don’t Be a People Pleaser
If you’re a yes man, a people pleaser she might abuse your kindness. A woman likes a man who is confident and in control. Are you that kind of man?
When She Initiates Contact
This is a very important thing that also lets you know if you’re in the friendzone or not. If she only initiates contact when she had a fight with her boyfriend or when she feels lonely and ignored, it means you are in the friendzone. But if you like a woman who already has a boyfriend, maybe it’s time you find someone available. If she doesn’t have a boyfriend, let her know that she can contact you when she isn’t feeling lonely, too because you enjoy her presence. She’ll understand that you want to be more than friends. Or you can explain that using your own words.