Tips to Stop Cyberbullying

Parents and teachers are advised to talk with the children and explain to them the concept of cyberbullying and how it can be ignored, reported or stopped, depending on the gravity of the situation. But not only kids and teenagers are targeted. Adults need to know how they can stop cyberbullying before it causes irreparable damages.

The following tips on how to stop cyberbullying will always be of use; especially since we live in the age of technology we have to be aware of both its beautiful and ugly sides.

Indifference is Vital

Whatever you do, don’t respond; don’t engage in a dialogue with the cyberbullies. This is their goal. To get any reply or reaction from your part. By ignoring them, you’ll annoy them more and you’ll feel in control of the situation. Indifference is vital and it is definitely one solution to stop the cyberbullying. No matter how hurt you are, no matter how much you want the bully to stop or make him see things your way, these kinds of persons can’t be changed. They live for the moment; for the reaction from your part. Don’t feed the cyberbullies.

A Tooth for a Tooth

…and an eye for an eye will make the whole world blind and toothless.  The idea is that you can’t stoop to the cyberbully’s level and respond with violence to violence. Leave the chat room or the place where the cyberbullying is happening or ignore the bully per se. Violence won’t solve any problems; it will make you feel bitter, frustrated, angry and you definitely don’t need to deal with so many things all at once. Ignorance is the key.

Harassing Messages

If things seem to escalate use screen caps and save the evidence. There are many laws now that protect the internet users and the internet environment and you should always save the evidence of a cyberbully’s attack. When things escalate there are many legal ways in which a cyberbully can be stopped and persecuted.

Your Friends and Family

You have plenty of friends and family that you can trust. Open up to them and tell them what is happening to you; what you are going through. You are never alone and there are people that care for you, especially in the real world. You can also confide in your shrink that knows how to deal with cyberbullies best, from a legal and psychological point, too.

Hooray for Privacy Tools and Applications

Cyberbullies can be blocked and reported via different online platforms as well as call blockers and other mobile applications that will assure you get the best privacy and peace and quiet that you definitely deserve.

Stand Up for Others

All types of bullying can be prevented and stopped. Bullies are cowards in real life as well as in different online environments. If you see a person that is bullied act now. Defending someone will mean so much for the bullied person. Call the police if things escalate.

How to Deal with Cyberbullying

Cyberbullying is viewed as a sort of harassment where technology is used to bully people. The types of cyberbullying are many and they can be related to body shaming, psychological harassment or humiliation and it often happens on social media websites, via different messengers or even texting. This kind of bullying doesn’t end here. It comes disguised as fake profiles meant to make fun of the victim, too. Cyberbullying is a complex, painful topic that keeps getting more and more violent even if it happens in a virtual, online world.

A lot of people use the internet and cyberbullying poses a real threat since the main instigator, the main bully can draw other people into bullying a certain person. That can have horrible emotional and psychological consequences over the person who’s bullied.

Let the Ones You Love Know

You are not alone in this psychological battle. Let your friends and family know about what’s happening. You will feel a bit better and you will also understand that cyberbullying has nothing to do with you; the bully has psychological problems and he or she is projecting his own fears and frustrations on you. You are surrounded by people that love and respect you; don’t let other people tell you otherwise.

Self-confidence and Self-esteem

Oftentimes, cyberbullied people have a low self-esteem and they aren’t too confident in themselves. A cyberbully will see these things as vulnerabilities and he’ll attack, feeding off one’s emotions and pains. It takes time to build confidence and self-esteem and you should also consider going to a therapist for a few sessions. Trained therapists can really help you out to cope with such awful situations.

Report the Cyberbullying

Keep proof of the cyberbullying that just happened. Keep screenshots and show them to your internet provider or to different associations that deal with cyberbullying (for example Chatdanger can really help you out). They have the necessary means to prevent this thing from happening to another person and to punish the cyberbully.

Protect Your State of Mind

…by blocking the messages you get from that cyberbully or by changing your contact info and even leaving a certain site or deleting a certain profile. You don’t need this negativity and violence in your life. There are other social media websites you can hang on and enjoy people who won’t harm you.

Notice a Certain Pattern

You can apply some basic psychology theories when paying closer attention to your cyberbully. These kinds of persons seem to have a certain pattern. Sexual threats are normally typical of sex offenders, physical threats are typical of violent people who definitely have some psychological issues etc. This is important and it should determine you to inform the authorities; the cyberbully might be someone who has evaded the authorities or has a previous conviction. You can help this thing from happening again or save people from the harm that this cyberbully can cause in real life.

Don’t Try to Reply

Whatever you do, don’t engage in replies with your cyberbully. That’s what this person wants. To see how much it hurts you. To continue with his or her humiliations online so that everybody can see. The cyberbully likes to put on a show. Don’t let yourself be dragged in his or her mind games. Indifference and no reply from your part are the best options you have. The lack of reaction from your part will annoy the cyberbully and even if he or she may get more violent, you will have the proof that he poses a threat to the online environment.