Relocating: Pros and Cons
Life takes us to so many different places and we have to make some difficult decisions that can impact both our private and professional life. If you are faced with the decision of relocating due to various situations, there are some things you must be prepared for before this big step.
Like any major decision that you make, relocating has its pros and cons. Weigh both the advantages and disadvantages and choose according to your reason and heart’s desires. Your gut feeling is never wrong; but you also have to analyze things and choose what seems best for you for the current time.
Room to Grow
If you are relocating ask yourself this question: is there room to grow? Will your life be improved by this major step? Will you have a financially stable life and a happier personal life? Can you hope for a promotion? Is the relationship you’re fighting for worth the effort? Can it stand the test of time? Is the place you’re going to pleasant when it comes to its culture, customs and traditions, economic situation and climate? Can you cope with all of these changes?
Time to Do Your Research
Before making any decision, you need to spend more time living in that certain place. Live in the place you’re relocating for at least one month. Can you handle the bills, the rent, the nightlife, the customs, the food, the weather? Do you like this new place more than your current location? If so, it seems that you have already made your choice. If you can’t afford to spend some time in that particular place, read different opinions regarding the particular city you have in mind or watch online documentaries. They can give you an idea of what to expect when relocating to a particular place. If you’re planning to accept the work proposition of a company, look for more information regarding that company, too. You should know what to expect and what you’re dealing with before accepting any work offer.
Analyze what You Leave Behind
You have friends and family that you love and you are also loved in return. Is all this relocating process worth it? Can you handle life without your friends and family?
A Budget
You can’t just relocate without having saved some money in advance. Before cashing in on your first salary, you need money to pay rent, to eat, to drink, to use different means of transport, to buy stuff that you use in your apartment etc. Have you set a budget aside for the whole relocating process?
Take Others into Consideration
Even if it is perfectly fine to pursue your dreams if other people are involved in the decision that you’re making, ask for their opinion, too. Maybe they have plans in mind that involve you, too so you have to weigh if the personal matters are more important that the professional choices. If your partner wants to marry you and settle down in your hometown, you have to make a decision and let him or her know that you’d like to relocate. Maybe they’ll follow you or maybe you’ll have to decide if you relocate or settle down in your hometown. Decisions, decisions…