Are you tired of battling over the chores of the house? It’s exhausting, I get it. Before my husband and I had kids, our house was clean all the time. Then kids came and oh my gosh, our house is rarely clean!
Not only is it hard to find time to clean, it’s always hard to decide who cleans what and when. While there are far more important things in our life, I’m not above admitting that we sometimes have disagreements over who does what chores. We aren’t genuinely mad at each other, we are just all worn out is all. That’s why we finally put some focus on how to stop the battle over chores.
Does it make you crazy that your spouse is always putting their socks on the floor. Does it create arguments between the two of you? I get it, I really do. But at the end of the day, it’s just a pair of socks. Just pick them up and let it go. While I don’t necessarily agree with this on the bigger things, I am a big believer in the “don’t sweat the small stuff” mindset.
Chore charts are great for kids and adults alike. It’s kind of a perfect option for families. If you can look up at a calendar and just see what chore you need to do, it helps you just know exactly what needs to be done so you aren’t having to wonder.
Between work and kids and extracurriculars and spending time together, sometimes it is simply hard to find time to get everything done. Hiring out housework is probably cheaper than you think it is. I have found that hiring a housekeeper for a few hours per week is a great way to stay on top of the little things the rest of the time.
Everyone is stressed out. To ease the stress, why not ask your spouse or family member how you can help. Just the idea that you are asking to help will ease tensions tremendously.
Do you feel like you are constantly following your children in an effort to stay on top of the messes they create? Well, you need to stop. Now. Okay, okay, if you have a baby or a toddler, I am going to give you a pass and let you keep on following. However, if you child is any older than that, it is their turn to clean up after themselves. No need for you to do it, besides, I’m sure you have plenty of other stuff that needs to be done anyway, am I right?
If you are struggling to figure out how to get your kids to clean up after themselves without a major fight, it can be done. I know that it is stressful and overwhelming, but the truth is, the bigger they get, they bigger those messes get, so let’s get to work!
Here are 4 tips that will help your children learn to clean up after themselves:
Just in case you missed this article on giving your kids jobs or chores the first time we shared it a couple of years ago, we are republishing it. After Marne wrote this blog originally, we got an awesome response. This is one of the PYP Best Blogs!
Most of us try to enlist our children with doing chores around the house. We feel it is something that will develop a strong work ethic for them, as well as teach them basic principles of how to take care of themselves and be a decent, clean and orderly human being. Am I right?
I have read that children who help out at home or have regular chores may have some of the following characteristics:
*can be better behaved when they are away from home
*can have more self-confidence
*may be able to be more self-disciplined when they live away from home
*could take initiative when it comes to taking care of themselves when they move away from home
*may be better at multi-tasking
*learn how important it is to keep themselves and their environment clean and orderly (and how that can affect their behavior)
Granted these may not apply to all children, but I do think it is true to a degree. I have seen it with chores and my own four children.
We all will also agree on the fact that is sometimes if more like babysitting or pulling teeth when it comes to getting our kids to help around the house and get their chores done! We started something in our house a few months ago that seems to be working. Granted, I don’t follow this religiously as life does happen…either we forget or we are out and about so much there is no time….but when we do use it with our chores, it does work!
I made a wheel out of card stock (I just traced them using different items in my kitchen for the circle) and attached them with a large brad. Then I used a Sharpie to write on the assignments. We agreed to do these things each evening before bed. Each child is assigned a “zone” to work on (the first two colors) then the inside color (green) are a few random quick jobs to do. My kids LOVE the idea of being a sheriff! I had a hard time coming up with another job, then I thought of having one of them be the person who helps those who need it, checks up on them, and makes sure the job is done. So far it has worked beautifully! The kids aren’t perfect of course, but for the most part they are really good about helping out, and they know what is expected of them.
What I like about this system most is that:
*it is easy, quick, and everyone understands
*simple to put together with supplies almost everyone has on hand
*kids can be involved creating it
*you can rotate the wheel to mix it up to any combo you like
If you are needing to change your current chore system or want to start one, this idea is a great one! Tweak it to how it will work for you. It has sure worked for us.
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